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If you've ever been told you care too much — you belong here.

A free community for hospitality workers, service professionals, and anyone who serves from the heart. Built by someone who's still on the floor.

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Digital Courses

This isn't a course. It's a conversation. I'm going to tell you what I learned in 20 years of restaurants, and you're going to recognize yourself in it.

The Three Selfishnesses · The Five Pillars · Reading the Room

Community Forum

The Warehouse. The dark room where nobody's watching and everybody belongs. Say what's real. We'll listen.

Stories from the Floor · Ask Demetri · The Pre-Shift

The Warehouse Live

Think of this like sitting at the bar after close. The music's still on, the lights are low, and we're just talking. Bring your questions. Bring yourself.

Live Q&A · Real conversations · Past sessions archive

“Serve from fullness. Not emptiness.”

“The caring is not the problem. It's the whole point.”

“Stop performing. Start connecting.”

“Strength is renewable. Fear never is.”

— Demetri Gregorakis, Selfish Hospitality: A Labor of Love

Built by someone who's still on the floor.

Demetri Gregorakis is a hospitality professional, author, and speaker with 20+ years in the restaurant industry — from busser to owner to general manager.

He's the author of Selfish Hospitality: A Labor of Love, a memoir about learning to serve others from fullness instead of emptiness.

He built this community because he believes hospitality workers deserve a place where they're spoken to with honesty and respect — not corporate training, but real connection.

@selfishhospitalityselfishhospitality.com
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Demetri Gregorakis

Author · Speaker · GM at Jayna Gyro, Sacramento

“A practitioner who thinks, not a thought leader who left the floor.”

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